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"Forgive, and you shall be forgiven"

by Saint Theophanes the Recluse

 

 

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"Forgive, and you shall be forgiven. We must forgive with all our heart."

The Lord closed the Parable of the two debtors with the following words:

"Thus will my heavenly Father do to you, if you do not forgive each of your brothers their trespasses, from your hearts" (Matthew 2:35).

It seems obvious that what is required of us is only a small thing: “forgive, and be forgiven” (by God).

When you forgive, you become receptive of mercy. And when you become receptive of mercy, you become partakers of all the treasures of mercy:  Salvation, Paradise and Eternal Bliss.

What a maximum gain for so small a sacrifice as forgiveness!  Indeed, it is a small sacrifice; but - thanks to our self-love - nothing can be so difficult as to forgive.  

We might forgive some unintended annoyance done to us privately, without anyone else knowing about it; but if the insult is somewhat more sensitive and is done in public, then we don't forgive easily.

There are times when - whether you like it or not - you cannot express your displeasure and you remain silent. But it is only your tongue that remained silent. In the meantime, your heart talks to you, begetting cunning plans. If you happen to take the offense a bit more seriously and the situation becomes unbridled, it will escalate out of control.

Neither shame, nor fear, or loss or anything else can hold you back. Your egotism has reached its limits and it renders one crazy.  And should that person surrender to his insanity, he will speak paranoically. People who are subject to this unfortunate condition are not like ordinary people.

The more civil one is, the more sensitive one becomes to insults, but also more unwilling to forgive; relations will continue to be smooth superficially, but internally there will be discord.  

And yet - the Lord asks us to forgive,  with all our heart.

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'The salvific  space of the Church', volume II, pp. 38-39, Petrou Botsi publications, Athens 2019

 

Translation A.N.

 

Article published in English on: 21-11-2025.

Last update:  21-11-2025.