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Why is Fasting so hard?

Because it exposes what controls you.

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bd1CfADnsTc

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Why does the Church ask us  to fast?

Is it just about food?

Is it about discipline,tradition, or control?

Or is fasting actually revealing something much deeper about the human condition?

Because if you go back to the very beginning,  the first fall of humanity was not a failure of strength. It was a failure of  restraint.

Adam and Eve were not commanded to do something complicated. They were simply asked to fast, to abstain, to trust God enough to say "no".

And in that moment, humanity  chose appetite over communion, desire over obedience. And that fracture  has echoed through every generation since...

So when the Church calls us to fast, She is not  introducing something new. She is returning us to something ancient, something we lost.

Because fasting is not about food. It is about restoring the human person.

I didn't understand that at first. If I'm  honest, I thought fasting was mostly external. What you eat, what you avoid.Something you try to get right.

But the longer I've been walking this path, the more I've realized that food is just the surface.

Fasting exposes something much deeper. It reveals what we are attached to, because the moment you begin  to fast, something becomes very clear. We are not as free as we think we are.

We reach for comfort automatically.

We justify small indulgences.

We negotiate with ourselves.

We say things like “just this once”.

And in those moments, fasting begins to uncover the inner condition of the heart. Not in theory, but in reality.

This is why the Church has always understood fasting as medicine, not punishment, not a  spiritual performance. Medicine.

Because the human will has been weakened. Our desires are disordered. We don't just struggle with sin; we are inclined  toward it.

And fasting begins to push against that – gently, but firmly.

It teaches the body that it is not in control.

It teaches  the heart that desire is not authority, and it creates space for something  else to enter.

Because when you remove constant comfort, you begin  to notice things you couldn't see before:

Restlessness, irritation, impatience, even anger. Things that were already there, but hidden under distraction and satisfaction.

Fasting doesn't create those things.

It reveals them.

And once they are revealed, they can be healed.

This  is why fasting has always been tied to repentance.

Not just abstaining from food, but turning the heart back to God.

Because fasting without repentance becomes empty.

And repentance without some form of discipline rarely lasts.

The two belong together.

And this is also why fasting has always been part of the life of the Church. From the earliest Christians,Wednesdays and Fridays were days of fasting.

Wednesdays, for  remembering the betrayal. Fridays, for remembering the Cross.

Not as rituals, but as a rhythm, a way of aligning the body with the story of salvation.

Then you have the longer fasts:

Great Lent, a journey of repentance before Pascha; a  stripping away of excess, a return to simplicity, and even fasting  before receiving the Eucharist.

Because approaching God is not casual.  

It requires preparation, attention, sobriety.

All of this shows us something important.

Fasting is not random. It is deeply connected to how the Church understands the human person: body and soul together, not separate.

What we do with the body affects the soul and what happens in the soul eventually shapes the body.

So fasting becomes a way of bringing the whole person into alignment.

But  here's where it becomes even more powerful.

Because fasting is not only connected to the Fall, it is also connected to  Christ,  before Christ begins His public ministry.

He goes into the wilderness and He fasts 40 days - not as a symbol but as a confrontation.

Where Adam failed, Christ remains faithful.

Where humanity chose appetite, Christ chooses obedience.

And in that moment, He doesn't just  resist temptation, He restores the path.

So when we fast, we are not just  practicing discipline. We are participating in something. We are stepping  into the life of Christ.

This is where the deeper meaning begins to open up, because fasting  is not about becoming impressive. It is about becoming receptive.

In Orthodoxy we speak about theosis (deification), the transformation of the human person by the life of God. But that transformation does not happen automatically.

We cooperate with it. This  is where fasting becomes part of synergy. God gives grace. But we respond. We make space.

We remove what is in the way. And fasting helps create  that space.

Less noise, less indulgence, less distraction, so that something greater can take root.

Prayer becomes deeper, awareness becomes sharper, the heart becomes more attentive.

Not because fasting  is powerful on its own,but because it clears the ground.

But there is also a danger here. Because like anything in the spiritual life, fasting can be misunderstood.

It can become external, mechanical, even prideful.

You can fast strictly and still remain unchanged.

You can follow every rule and still be far from God.

Because fasting was never meant to stand alone. If fasting is not joined with humility,

it becomes  ego.

If it is not joined with mercy, it becomes harshness.

If it is not joined with repentance, it becomes empty.  

The Fathers were very clear about this: "Better to  eat and be humble than to fast and be proud."

So the question is not just “Am I fasting?”

The real question is “What is  my fasting producing in me? Is it making me more patient, more aware of my weaknesses, more  dependent on God?

Or is it making me more rigid, more judgmental,more focused on myself?”

Because true fasting softens the heart. It does not  harden it.

And this is where we have to be honest.

Fasting is difficult, not just  physically but internally, because it confronts everything we use to comfort ourselves - food, habits, patterns - and it forces us to  face something we usually avoid. ourselves.

But that is also where  the freedom begins.

Because every time you say “no” to something small, you are strengthening  something much greater.

The ability to choose, the ability to resist, the ability to remain. And over time, that becomes stability.

Not emotional highs, not temporary motivation, but steadiness. The kind of steadiness that cannot be easily shaken.

This is why we fast: not to prove something, not to earn something, but to become something.

To become people who are no longer ruled by impulse, but shaped by communion.

To become  people whose desires are no longer scattered, but ordered toward God.

And that doesn't happen in one fast, or one season. It happens slowly, through consistency, through failure and return, through learning to begin again and again and again, until something changes, until the  heart becomes quieter, the will becomes stronger, and the presence of God becomes more real.

Fasting is not about removing food.

It is about removing everything  that keeps us from seeing clearly.

And when that begins to happen, you realize something.

You were never just hungry for food.  You were hungry for God.

And fasting was helping you remember that.

 

Article created : 18-3-2026.

Last update : 18-3-2026